Remember Riot Grrrl, and then remember how the media ran with it and twisted it and made it into this crazy thing? That’s what you should do with what you think you know about the “Antioch Rules”. As I remember it, it came about after 2 or 3 people were raped one semester. It had been in effect for 3 years or so before the media discovered it and blew it into a big, horrible, giant set of permissions and oversight.
As we all followed it, it broke down to this: if you weren’t both mutually going for it, you had to state your intentions aloud, and the other person had to answer. Pretty much “I want to kiss you” and then (possibly)later “I want to have sex with you”. It gave people too shy to speak their mind an opportunity to say no, and it CERTAINLY didn’t stop any consensual sex from happening. Or orgies, etc. It was completely orientation/gender neutral, and in my time there I only heard about a few people being brought to the SOP, only one was a straight man.
Keep in mind this is a tiny campus, full of mostly smart weirdos, with no fraternities or college sports teams, narrative evaluations instead of grades, unlocked doors to the dorms, unisex bathrooms full of condoms, dental dams AND finger cots, a few single gender dorms but mostly co-ed even in the rooms, situationist food co-ops, beer-drinking pagans, frequent admin building takeovers, protesting the Contract With America, incessant discussions about gender politics, the coming apocalypse, mayan linguistics, etc. It just asked that you really think and talk about what you wanted to do in a sexual context with someone, to set the ground rules, essentially.
Mostly it was the boys at Antioch who would receive aggressive unwanted attention, since an unattached, attractive straight man was basically a unicorn. The SOP protected them as much as everyone else. When it swept through the media and everyone assumed this “protect the delicate flower of womanhood” shit I remember we were all horrified. And that SNL skit was an abomination.
Interestingly when Rohypnol (Roofies) hit campus and swept through in the mid 90s, they were never used there as a date rape drug, just something that you took and drank and it made you SUPER wasted.